Dating someone with a complex disability is obviously challenging, exhausting & frustrating at times; especially during one of my flare ups as I require 24 hour care. Something I still find very difficult, as you can feel like such a burden; yet Felix never hesitates to help me & rarely complains. He has had to make a few sacrifices along the way in order to care for me, but he never makes me feel guilty about depending on him. He simply gets on with the problem at hand, whilst trying to make me smile along the way. We have been through more than most couples experience in a lifetime, but it is these experiences that have strengthened our relationship.
From the moment I met Felix he has taught me to make the most of every day, no matter how rubbish things were! For example, during some of my toughest hospital admissions Felix would bring date night to the hospital! He would bring our favourite food, movies and home comforts just to make my day a little brighter. Even if I only managed a few mouthfuls of dinner, or I fell asleep during the film; it was a welcomed distraction.